advice?

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I just found out a female friend from my younger days has thyroid cancer. Apparently it is serious enough where she has been receiving RAI treatments and is in fact going into surgery to remove her thyroid this week. I found out just the other day and it has been weighing heavily on my mind since. I am so worried about her, and even though we are both older, we are both far too young to be getting health issues like this. Now, I haven't seen this friend of mine in about 17 years (yes, I am that old), and we have lived our lives separately with a lot of stuff happening in those years, until I reconnected with her online in 2005, and we have sporadically been in contact via email, the occasional phone call, and later facebook, since. She is married. I am not, and I never have married. I have had serious relationships, but currently I think I am broken up with someone. That's a whole other mess best left alone.

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